Anita Roy is many things to many people. At this time, around 2013, her three boys have grown up and left home, leaving her to muse more about the things she always mused about before. Life, love, death, dreams, parenting, pain, trauma, past life, next life, family, oy! family. Current life coordinates are: Half Danish, half Bengali, born in Manchester England, grew up mostly in Montreal, Canada. Loves to think. Enjoys intelligence. Good cook. Good listener. Good traveler. Committed since 1986 to a very nice man called Mehdi. She lives on Vancouver Island. Unschooling her three kids opened the door to thinking about not living in a state of constant fear.